One of the guys I met the other day is a former colleague that I really enjoyed working with, cause he was funny and I really respect the dude personally and professionally (and he’s a frequent visitor here too!). And he’s happily married and have a son now and he was telling us (3 hopelessly single guys) about the overwhelming emotion of having a child and the feeling that “this persons life means more to me than my own” surprised him. He’s not the first person to have said that, another friend described it as “it was the moment I stopped living for me and started living for my child”. Now I have absolutely no way of knowing how powerful that feeling is or anything but… I dunno what’s wrong with me cause I already feel those things, definitely not as intense but definitely more frequently! There aren’t that many people that I wouldn’t lay down my life for (and I hope to prove it one of these days)! And I’ve never felt that I live for me… maybe that’s cause I’ve always been on the service side of things and why I’m happiest when all my friends and family are doing good and I lose sleep over just one friend being miserable. But what do I know …
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